Have you tried adtoll for advertising? It gives you control whether you are an advertiser or a publisher. As a publisher you set how much people pay to advertise on your site. I recommend starting low and working your way up. As an advertiser you select what sites you would like to advertise on. Some sites charge 20 cents for a week(no matter how many clicks you receive) and up from there.
As a publisher you can also specify what kind of sites will be approved for your website. I think it is a great place, check out adtoll today!